The scene revolved around punishment (his first spanking scene!), potty training, and of course regression. I would be playing the role of his Auntie Penny and K would be my visiting nephew. I suggested that he was having bedtime accidents, which he felt should be due to insufficient potty training by his parents. We discussed safe words and other basics of negotiation, then dived right in.
I left for a moment to allow K to compose himself, then returned en role, telling him that I wanted a word with him in the other room. I had K sit down and proceeded to chastise him very thoroughly. I pulled all the stops, being sure that my voice was nothing but condescending, maternal, and brisk, with hints of deep anger. There was nothing sensual in my reprimand.
And yet K could not help but giggle! He had warned me that this was something that happened in his previous sessions. Obviously he wasn't taking his verbal punishment seriously. Sternly I asked what was so funny.
Nothing but giggles answered me.
Taking K by the ear, I led him into the kitchen and made him stand by the sink while I grabbed a fresh bar of Ivory soap from the bathroom. I placed a glass of water next to him, laid out a white hand towel, and unwrapped the soap. K was visibly nervous. We had not discussed mouthsoaping, but it was clear that something was necessary to show him that I meant business and that I could really punish him, if I so chose. I asked if his mouth had been washed out with soap before and he said that, no, it hadn't. Good, then this would be the ameliorating, awakening action he so clearly needed.
As I slid the soap into his mouth, K's eyes widened and watered. He clearly wasn't enjoying the soap. I've never had much of a problem with Ivory soap, but it always seems very unpleasant for those taking it for the very first time. I only left it for a few seconds before putting it down on the towel and allowing K to spit and rinse his mouth with the water. However, I made sure that he knew that the soap was still available, resting on the towel.
The effect was immediate and very satisfying. K went instantly from being a role player who felt rather silly to a chastened little boy who was ashamed at being punished by his stern Auntie.
From there, I administered a sound spanking to K's recalcitrant bottom, giving him a simultaneous tongue lashing that he seemed to feel much more acutely this time around. It was a punishment spanking, but had to be given slowly to avoid marks. I didn't want K's phantom Mommy and Daddy to think I'd been too hard on him! ;)
The scene ended with two big bag enemas to force K to go potty before bed. I made it very clear that I wasn't going to be washing any more sheets!